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I Want Her Shoes Newsletter Vol 4

Hi love,
This week we’re diving into power dressing with a spicy twist—literally.
We’re breaking down the history of menswear and how to make it your own in 2025. Think: strong shoulders, crisp button-downs, oversized blazers, and unapologetic confidence. Whether you’re channeling Chanel tweeds or Kris Jenner’s slick bob + bold tie combo, these looks aren’t just trends—they’re statements.
Also on the menu? Jalapeño-infused white wine, aka the drink of the summer. We’ve got the perfect pour-and-pair guide to match your tailored looks with something just as sharp and unforgettable.
And yes… the Luxury Shoe Swap was such a hit, we’re doing it again—twice! This time we’re expanding the vibe: bring your shoes, accessories, and handbags. Get the full details in the events section (and bring your besties).
💔 This edition is dedicated to my sweet angel cat Oszy, who tragically passed away on Monday morning while I was in the middle of writing this newsletter. He was my little shadow, my creative companion, and a part of this journey in every way. I miss him deeply, and I’m sending love to anyone holding space for grief while still showing up with heart.
With love + style,
Anna, Your Editor & Host
This Week’s Edit: Suit Up & Sip Smart - Your Summer Pairings Guide
Power Moves: A Short History of Women in Menswear
Menswear on women isn’t just a look—it’s a legacy. From Chanel’s soft suiting to Met Gala tuxedos, every blazer tells a story. Here’s how we got here:
1920s–40s: The Quiet Rebels
The first cracks in the corset. As women gained voting rights and stepped into the workforce, Coco Chanel’s jersey suits redefined comfort and elegance. Marlene Dietrich in tuxedos? Iconic and controversial.
Why it mattered: Menswear said: “I choose. I lead. I don’t need permission

1950s–60s: Subtle Structured Femininity
The return of “feminine” fashion—with resistance. Think Katharine Hepburn’s relaxed slacks and button-downs—quiet rebellion in a world of cinched waists and pearls.
Why it mattered: A whisper of strength in a decade of conformity. The future was pressing through.

1970s: Glam Rock & Androgyny
When feminism met disco. Bianca Jagger’s white tux. Bowie’s glittering ambiguity. Lines blurred—and then bedazzled.
Why it mattered: Clothes became louder than words: “I am who I say I am.”
1980s: The Power Suit Era
Bold shoulders. Sharp lines. Big moves. With women stepping into corporate life, the power suit became the new uniform. Think: Joan Collins, Grace Jones, Working Girl energy.
Why it mattered: No more playing dress-up. This was the armor of ambition.

1990s: Minimalism & Confidence
The blazer gets breezy, but never basic. Princess Diana, Diane Keaton, and Julia Roberts showed how to rock masculine tailoring with effortless cool.
Why it mattered: It wasn’t about dressing like men anymore—it was about rewriting the rules.
2000s–2010s: Fluid Fashion
The rise of personal style and gender freedom. Janelle Monáe in tuxedos. Streetwear. Queer icons. The lines didn’t just blur—they vanished.
Why it mattered: Style became identity. Power became personal.
Take the bite out of rising vet costs with pet insurance
Veterinarians across the country have reported pressure from corporate managers to prioritize profit. This incentivized higher patient turnover, increased testing, and upselling services. Pet insurance could help you offset some of these rising costs, with some providing up to 90% reimbursement.
2020s–2025s: Its Ours Now
The remix era. Kris Jenner in a pinstriped tie. Zendaya’s red carpet suiting. Oversized proportions, genderless expression, and Met Gala masterpieces.
Why it matters now: We’re not borrowing from the boys anymore—we’re leading in our own lane. Suits say: “I own this.”

Editor’s Take:
Tailoring is storytelling. Every button-down, every blazer is part of a long line of women who challenged expectations. So whether you’re suiting up for a pitch, a date, or just Monday—wear it your way. Wear it like it’s yours. Because it is.
Jalepeno Infused Boss Energy
This is the drink of the summer—spicy, unexpected, and sharper than your sharpest shoulder pad.

How to Infuse:
Slice 1 jalapeño (seeded or not depending on heat)
Drop into a full bottle or pitcher of chilled white wine
Let sit 15–30 minutes, taste test, then strain
Garnish with cucumber, lime, or chili salt for extra flair
Redefining Wealth with Rhonda Singer
On Episode 15 of the Podcast, I sat down with the fabulous Rhonda Singer, Managing Director at J.P. Morgan Private Bank and one of the few women to break through the trading floor ranks in the early days of her career.
👠 Key Moments:
Rhonda on rising in a male-dominated field.
Why jewelry and bags can be smart investments.
How transitions spark financial empowerment.
How-to Power Dress (Without Buying a Thing)
1. Start with Structure: Reach for anything with clean lines—think blazers, collared shirts, tailored pants, or a sharp midi skirt. Structure = confidence.
2. Monochrome Magic: A single color head-to-toe (especially black, white, navy, or pink or camel) always reads intentional and elevated.
3. Layer Like a Pro: Add a vest, trench, or oversized blazer. The secret sauce? A shoulder pad or a strong collar goes a long way.
4. Accessorize with Attitude: Bold earrings, a vintage watch, or your favorite loafers instantly pull the look together. Pick one signature piece and own it.
5. Posture = Power: Style is 90% how you carry it. Shoulders back, chin up—now go handle it.

Featured Video: Wear Your Story in NYC 🗽
Our co-editor Nicole is back with an NYC adventure you won’t forget—from bathroom glam sessions to Louis Vuitton magic.
👠 Key Moments:
LV Café dreams & spontaneous style on the go
The rise of menswear, Met Gala moments & Kris Jenner's bold evolution
Why fashion is memory—and every piece tells a story
🎥 [Watch Episode 16 on YouTube 👇]
What’s Hot Right Now: Fashion Headlines
Quick takes on what’s making waves globally this week:
Britney x Balenciaga: Pop legend meets fashion house. Britney Spears drops a bold capsule with Balenciaga—graphic tees, oversized hoodies, and ‘Gimme More’ glam. It’s Demna’s final drop.
Editor’s Take: WE ARE IN ♥️ It’s chaotic, nostalgic, and everything we didn’t know we needed.Vivrelle Raises $62M: Luxury rental club Vivrelle just scored $62M to expand their handbag + jewelry swaps. New perks, designer drops, and a Four Seasons collab are on the horizon.
Editor’s Take: Resale is out—sharing is the new luxury flex.Dior Gets a Shakeup: Jonathan Anderson (JW Anderson) steps in as Dior’s creative director across everything. Get ready for edgy, sculptural minimalism.
Editor’s Take: The girls who love sharp tailoring and weird elegance are about to be fed.Summer Trend Check-In: Yellow everything. Sheer fabrics. Shell jackets. Fruitcore accessories. Your feed is about to get juicy.
Editor’s Take: Think Amalfi Coast meets Pinterest girlie—it’s playful, punchy, and super wearable.
Where to Be Seen: Miami Edition
Fashion is nothing without fabulous places to wear it. Here’s what’s on
my calendar locally:
👠🕶️👛 Luxury Shoe/Accessories SWAP by I Want Her Shoes
📅 July 31 • 🕒 6:30 PM – 9 PM
📍 atMDD (RSVP for exact location)
📅 August 28 • 🕒 6:30 PM – 9 PM
📍 atMDD (RSVP for exact location)
Why Go: Bring your besties, your heels, and your statement bags. Sip wine, swap accessories, and leave styled to the nines.
💋 Until next week — keep wearing your story.
That’s a wrap on power dressing and perfectly-pressed blazers. Whether you're buttoned-up in boardroom chic or just stealing inspo from Princess Di’s iconic street style, own it your way.
I’ll be enjoying my spicy jalapeño-infused white wine poolside here in Miami, dreaming up the next edit and scouting more looks to keep you inspired and styled to lead.
Got a closet conundrum? Want more how-tos or high-low styling tricks?
Hit reply—I’m always listening, always curating, always in your corner.
Since my earliest days in tech with the Baseball Beauties community, to launching this podcast and everything in between, I’ve used fashion to connect, uplift, and make bold, feminine statements that last. Here’s to doing it—our way.
With love + style,
Anna, Your Editor & Host - 𝐼 𝒲𝒶𝓃𝓉 𝐻𝑒𝓇 𝒮𝒽𝑜𝑒𝓈